There is a common view or assumption that when a baby is young, so young that it does not speak, it simply does not understand or is unaware of that which is going on in it's environment. My recent studies and experiences have shown me that a young child, a baby, is completely aware of what is going on. It has an Understanding that is deeper and empathic; words are inconsequential. The baby feels Everything. The child is especially connected on the deepest and most internal level to that which the Mother is experiencing and also the Father, and the emotional intricacies of their relationship.
The Body is also equally sensitive and responsive to the thoughts of the being that inhabits it. All of the thoughts, traumas and feelings, the body senses and feels. It takes it's cues from you.
Look into the deeper and most subtle and subconscious messages that you are sending and speaking to your body. Speak to your body the way that you might speak to your plants, telling your body that it is Beautiful and an oustanding and extraordinarily blessed creation of Nature and is perfect and Love it. Find a way.